Angel

Angelsilhouette

Re: So What Constitutes Maturity

September 13 2012
I have a very good memory of my childhood and teenage years. That said, I have a very strong memory of how mature my father was. He was a cruel and bigoted man, but he was never immature about it. Over the past few years though, as I have watched him age into his late 60s, his maturity has ebbed and he behaves like a 12 year old.

This is not something unique to my father, though. Our lives are rather circuitous; we begin life unable to walk, incontinent, frail, weak, emotionally stunted and with a brain that has yet to develop. We end our lives, if we live long enough, in much the same situation.

Of course, some people never really emotionally develop beyond their teenage years. Something not really that uncommon. There is a lot of facilitation in this, I feel, from the modern media. Immaturity and passive aggressive behaviour is still glamourised by movies and television. Sarcasm is funny on TV and films, as are overgrown children; and more and more people are being raised by TV. As a Gen X'r, born in the 70s, I had two parents who worked full time. For a large part of my childhood, being a latchkey kid, I was raised by the TV. Fortunately (and unfortunately) during the summer, my parents would take me to their office to keep an eye on me. (Hated that place).

Moving on; I believe that, for the most part, I behave very maturely towards others. I also, however, believe that I am inwardly quite immature. I still look very young, still feel very young, still sound very young, and still have very immature thoughts and feelings.

So, most people I know (including my therapist) would insist that I am a very mature person; despite this, however, I must disagree. I do know myself better than they do, after all.

So what is maturity? Will I ever grow up on the inside? Will that make me mature? Has anyone ever really "grown up" on the inside?

Or is Mr. Spock a good example of maturity. Raging emotions at his core, but with complete control over what he expresses?
William

Siafu

Re: inventory blues : Best Practices

September 13 2012
p.s. I wish I understood the Mystic Forge better.

Can't help you there buddy....I don't know anymore then you do about the Mystic Forge.

However, I sell blues and most greens to vendors...because when I do cross references between vendors and the Trading Post I find the variance to only be a few copper (generally speaking). However, I check all greens with vendors 1st, write down the amount for each on paper then run to the trading post and see what I can get there...so I bounce between each to maximize the $ for greens. I stopped salvaging most blues a long time ago and just sell them to vendors...because the market is already flooded with that same item or the mat created from them which makes getting a really good price for anything a tedious chore.

Hope that helped. :)
Edited September 13 2012 by Siafu

Unknown Person

Re: "First Steps" Screenshot Contest

September 13 2012
Competition is closed for entries.

Thank you everybody who participated! We'll announce a winner soon.

Update: The winner has been chosen, check out (Invalid img).
Edited September 22 2012 by Unknown Person
X Centric

Xcentric

inventory blues : Best Practices

September 12 2012
Inventory management is always a pain for me. I thought it would be helpful to discuss it a bit. I am wondering what other people's inventory practices are. In this game, many decisions are easy, but not all, for instance...

grey or white items... salvage

salvage items ... salvage (duh)

crafting resources go in the awesome collectible bank. Being able to right-click to deposit the collectible from anywhere in the world fills me with joy.

blue items and above
A trickier one for me is blue items (and I assume this will be an issue with greens as well):

Generally I have been salvaging them. But, many just become wood which is pretty boring and plentiful and wood is very cheap on the Trading Post.

Sometimes I will combine some at the mystic forge to see what I can get. By the way: Anyone know if that works based on your level or the level of the items you put in?

I could theoretically sell them on the Trading Post for a few copper because I am broke, but seems like maybe is missed opportunity.

I dunno. There may be other things I am unaware of.

What do you do? and why? :) (please discuss)

p.s. I wish I understood the Mystic Forge better.
Edited September 12 2012 by Xcentric
William

Siafu

Re: So What Constitutes Maturity

September 12 2012
Quote by Lost.7805
... I find maturity to be a combination of things. Life experience to know what needs to be done and when to ask for help. To know that there is a time and place for things. To have a life plan, goals and security set up for yourself....


I'm going to agree to disagree with you on a couple of points. /wink

I have met 5 year olds who are far more mature than some adults I've met. So life experience is not withstanding in so far as a definition of...maturity. Life goals and plans and the like are accomplishments...someone can accomplish something very important...and be a complete ass and very immature.

I loved this question by the way as I had to think about this for some time and I have come to the conclusion that maturity is a natural gift by way of genetics more than likely...very much the same way one is naturally humorous or their nature is to be helpful...this is what I mean when I call it a natural gift.

When maturity (their natural gift) is applied by said person of any given age, their maturity is evaluated by others and the inevitable outcome one desires is to be addressed or looked upon with respect in that you as a person elevated yourself above a situation that would normally be perceived as above your age or pay-grade sort-of-speak. Where in you are perceived by not only yourself as "mature" but also by the witnesses of your communication, actions or inaction's where the outcome is "respect."

Once you can look upon yourself with "self-respect" followed by the respect of others....you are now for that moment considered....Mature, at any age.

Disclaimer: Maturity is not a lifelong natural gift like having blue-eyes....you must work for respect to always be viewed as mature or you will from time to time (as we all have) been labeled immature.

To prove my theory, go to the Main Chat channel in GW2 and watch the comments. The first person to elevate themselves above the rest of the bs will be viewed by you with respect and then automatically labeled as "mature." Then the first person who says something that totally removes your respect for them...you will automatically label them as "immature." During this process you will not know how old these people are at all.

Case and point. :)

/salute
Edited September 13 2012 by Siafu

Unknown Person

Re: Not sure where to post this - vacation

September 12 2012
Have fun on your travels!

We'll all still be here when you get back. :)
Paul

Starfish1

Re: So What Constitutes Maturity

September 12 2012
I think both your definitions are excellent.

For me, it’s also knowing about when to speak and when to keep quiet on an issue, and about knowing yourself well too. When people are aggravating you, or a situation is getting you down – maturity is knowing that it might be the way ‘you’ are perceiving the situation or person, and not the other way around, and being able to act in a positive way when you are feeling very negative.
Sarah

SarahJ

Not sure where to post this - vacation

September 12 2012
I'm going to be traveling for a few weeks, so naturally I won't be online. Just making a note so I'm not booted for inactivity or anything. :S

Tootles!

gw2 id -that woman
characters - kate mansfield, falsted
Justin Fausek

nthoctave

Re: Event Report #2

September 12 2012
Personal Log: Lt. Jorath Orenn (Acting Captain)

Ever since I was a child, I admired the brave officers of the Imperial Romulan Fleet. I watched them depart my homeworld in their great ships to embark on missions of exploration and defense in the name of Romulus. I wanted to BE one of those officers. I wanted to command one of those ships. Then IT happened. In one fell swoop my people were diminished and fractured. Many of the brave officers and magnificent ships perished in the cataclysm and those that remained were mere shells of their former selves. I had little family, even less pride, and absolutely nothing left to believe in.

Then, sometime later, Starfleet opened its doors to any and all that wanted to serve. I had always admired their commitment to helping my people recover from the disaster, even after centuries of suspicion and hostility. They had a mission I could join. I once again had brave officers to admire and grand ships of the line to dream of commanding. My being posted to the Sally Ride was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Fast forward to today: After all the dreaming and all the hard work, I finally got what I wanted: the chance to command a ship. I wasn’t exactly giddy, but I did have an understandable level of excitement and anticipation. People stood at attention and said “Aye, sir!” Trained men and women were following MY orders. I thought I could handle it. I thought we could make it through this and come out on top. I was wrong.

The best plan I could come up with to escape from the Klingons was to run at them head-on and blow up a shuttle behind us to push us away. A cadet would have been able to come up with something better then that. When it came down to it, I just made up a reckless plan on the spot and put the ship and her crew in danger. I learned a lesson today, and my fellow officers paid the price for it.

Before, we were heavily damaged and lost in enemy space. Now, we’re still heavily damaged, the enemy knows where we are, AND the crew has to clean up my mess. I just hope we can pick up the pieces quickly enough to stay one step ahead of the Klingons.

I can’t make any more mistakes. We can’t afford them.

End of Log.
Zander Hawk

Zander_Hawk

Re: Role-Play Reboot!

September 12 2012
This makes me miss table top role playing :(
Kevin

Medart

Re: Event Report #2

September 11 2012
OOC: Man, I wish I was able to make it to this, especially seeing as my character is Alpha Watch's Ops Officer...

I'll do what I can to make the next event, although my internet is shoddy at best at the moment.
Edited September 11 2012 by Medart
Joelle

Vondra_Kelsan

Re: Event Report #2

September 11 2012
OOC: Given the light turnout last time, perhaps an in-game reminder closer to Saturday would help?

Unknown Person

Re: Star Trek: The Journey

September 11 2012
[=]


Episode 723 - Enterprise - "United" - 02/04/2005

http://www.allstepisodes.com/megvid.php?n=5413

Archer and Shran engage in mortal combat as Archer tries to unite the Andorians and Tellarites who are being set at each other's throats by a remote-controlled Romulan vessel.


Enjoy!
Hector

Odioshi

Ship Names

September 11 2012
@ Leto

Lol, thats ok, mine would have been The Gray Nugget =P
Matt Lebrun

Eienmatt

Re: Official Guild Emblem Contest

September 11 2012
Wow these are all so well designed! It's going to be a tough decision.
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CJay None

LaceyRand

Re: Fan Art not really fiction ...

September 11 2012
Majel Barret is my fixation .. well the later years with her and Odo on DS9 etc .. did you know there was a love triangle tween majel and nichelle nichols and gene . but nichelle broke it off so as not to hurt gene's career (cause of her color) and star trek .. I read that in tv guide many years ago . still strikes me to this day ...(and of course the first interacial kiss was star trek .. rock on)
Sam Dreith

stitch

Re: "First Steps" Screenshot Contest

September 11 2012
It was extremely difficult to decide between me facing dragons, Kerstov and I running from angry chickens, or even Kerstov drinking some pirates under the table..but, in the end I had the pic the posed shot with me and my buddy :D
Dave (Voleron)

Voleron

Re: Fan Art not really fiction ...

September 11 2012
I remember watching that episode too... like you, long before I understood the significance of the story and the social commentary it was making.

I saw an interview with Majel Barrett many years later, in which she said that they wouldn't have been able to discuss issues like racial segregation openly in the shoe, so, in order to get it past the censors, they dressed them pair up as aliens and painted one side white, the other black.

What I've always appreciated about Star Trek, is how they addressed contentious social issues in this way.

Also, I think the uniform makes a touching tribute :)

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Unknown Person

Re: Star Trek: The Journey

September 10 2012
[=]


Episode 722 - Enterprise - "Babel One" - 01/28/2005

http://www.allstepisodes.com/megvid.php?n=5412

Andorians threaten war on the Tellarites after apparently being attacked by a Tellarite vessel en route to trade talks.


Enjoy!
CJay None

LaceyRand

Fan Art not really fiction ...

September 10 2012
Thinking this is best place for this could be wrong ...

One of the most impactful star trek episodes (TOS) was the black white, white black episode ... that is I think entiled Let that Be Your Last Battlefield. As a kid this episode intrigued me ... long before I understood civil rights etc ... as an adult I would come to understand the implications .. one that as a white gay woman having a black straight male best friend; I found it would test my parents, my friends, and lovers who preach non racial bias but didn't always stand by it (IMHO).

Dee and I got to be roommates and friends for over 20 years .. when one of us was dating we tended to move away from our typically shared domicile, in order for our romance to bloom, and on failure ... LOL we were roommates again.

Its coming up on the 5th year of my best friend's death... he so would have loved this game, he missed the ending of battlestar, he would have loved dollhouse, he would have loved felicia day, so much he missed that when I watch things I think of him. I think I am going to keep this outfit until near the end of october in rememberance of him, that episode, and my personal feeling that the world is not as whole as Gene Roddenberry envisioned. (FYI I debuted this about 2 days ago in some fleet events already seeing copy cats to it lol!)



The wikia to the episode I am referring to...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Let_That_Be_Your_Last_Battlefield
Edited September 10 2012 by LaceyRand